I’ve cried about it and tried speaking with them but they don’t want to talk to me. But I can’t claim I didn’t do anything wrong when there was nothing wrong beforehand. I’m very terrible at picking up hints.Įdit 2: I understand what my parents was horrible. I’m just gonna rake leaves for a couple weeks to order it from take out.Įdit 1: before you start like attacking my family this could totally just be me missing some social queue or something. But I missed out on my birthday dinner because I wasn’t mature enough to bring my own money. My family gets a little tight on money, I guess I really should've asked before I assumed they were gonna pay it for me. I’m just very confused and im terrible with social queues. I also don’t mean this to be a validation post I have all the information you have. If I would've been warned I would've saved my raking money. I feel very angry and upset, at my family. They've been treating my horrible the whole day. I may be bad at social queues, but my family has never acted like this before, I mean never. When I got home I just ran to my room and cried. My family were calling me an entitled little A-hole the whole ride home. However my mom also paid for my 23 YO brother. My mom kinda huffs and shoos the waiter away. I was already feelings nauseous from the situation so I just said I dont have the money. My mother would explain at the table that now that I am 18 I should be able to pay for my own things. This is where I am conflicted on whether im the asshole or not. I don't really say anything and I get a really bad stomach ache from the anxiety. I dont know a job, all the money I get is from our neighbors raking leaves. As he gets to me, my mother stops him and tells him "Separate Bill" This is when my heart began beating very fast. As she calls the waiter over the alarm bells are ringing in my head this is never how it went before.Īs the waiter gets to the table he asks everyone what they want and everyones orders. I asked her if she could do it and she does it in a huff. I have extreme issues with speaking with people and I tend to stutter and get very very scared if that's the right word. "Well?" Mother: "Aren't you gonna call the waiter over?" This gave me extreme anxiety. The conversation went a little bit like this. I was confused at first and started tapping my fingers on one another like I always do. I couldn't really tell something was off until a bit later because when me, my mother, my stepfather, and my older brother sat down. In total its around 30$ A bit expensive I know. Hate me or not, with a side of mozzarella sticks.
The first thing I would get is the steak and shrimp parmesan with a side of loaded mashed potatoes, and cheesy steamed broccoli. Back to the story.Įvery year on my birthday we go to Applebee's. Which means I'm very well regulated and like things to stay the same way that they always have been. For those who are a bit confused, I have extreme OCD and high functioning autism. For the past six years like clockwork everyday on my birthday we'd go to the same place for dinner and I'd always get the same thing.
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